by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Jun 20, 2019 | Divorce
Attachment is part of the human condition. When you were happily attached to your partner, you felt secure. Unfortunately, you may not have learned how to let go in the same way you learned to attach. So, when loss happens, you may not know how to deal with it. Why is...
by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Jun 10, 2019 | Divorce, Relationships
It’s Not Me, It’s You – Or is it? We all do it. We think our relationships have problems because our partner needs to do something differently. “She’s so self-centered. I never feel understood.” “My husband is so inflexible and will rarely change his opinions. Did...
by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Mar 21, 2019 | Divorce
In most divorce situations, one person wants out of the marriage while the other doesn’t. Even in cases where a couple mutually agrees to a divorce, there is usually one person wants to hold on to the marriage more than the other one does. Is it more difficult for...
by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Jan 14, 2019 | Divorce
The internet was burning up last week with the announcement of billionaire and CEO of Amazon Jeff Bezos’ divorce from his wife MacKenzie Bezos. As someone who has experienced divorce first hand and written about it extensively, I couldn’t help wondering whether...
by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Sep 12, 2018 | Relationships
How To Use The Power Of Empathy To Revive, Change Or Improve Your Relationship What Is Empathy? Simply put, empathy is understanding: the sensing of another person’s underlying feelings, wants, and emotional dynamics – looking at the world through their lenses – “What...
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