by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Oct 26, 2019 | Relationships
“Why can’t he just listen and try to understand my feelings / experience rather than telling me to stick to the “facts”?” “When we get into an argument, why does she always act like she’s being attacked?” I’ve seen the long-term effects of couples who really want to...
by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Oct 3, 2019 | Relationships
More than you might think. There are no easy solutions or magic pills that will guarantee victory for either. Both involve a substantial commitment of time and effort. Neither is an impossible feat designed for special people. They are for people like YOU, who want...
by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Aug 23, 2019 | Relationships
Have you ever felt like your relationship was at a standstill? Like you and your partner have hit a wall and keep repeating the same flawed relationship patterns, and can’t seem to move forward? You want to keep going but you don’t know how to get unstuck? This is a...
by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Aug 15, 2019 | Relationships
When I was a little girl, my Dad, – a very wise man who was passionate about justice – told me that I should always look people in the eyes and tell them the truth. I imagine many of you have been told the same. Relationships should be based on honesty. ...
by Dr. Deborah Hecker | Aug 1, 2019 | Communication, Relationships
Recently, in between one of our weekly meetings, a high-conflict couple I am working with emailed me several pages of intense communications they had with one another. Ostensibly, this was to highlight how they slid back into their typical primitive, reptile-like...
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